We may also announce the parents and the
wedding party, remember to get us a list in order of arrival.
Dinner blessing, dinner is served, cutting of
the cake, toasts, bouquet/garter, bride/groom dance,
parents dance, wedding party dance, honeymoon dance, dollar
dance, chicken dance, music requests.
The Wedding party line up men on one side
women on the other side to form a hallway. Much as you would
form a tunnel of love. The DJ announces the wedding party and
the grand entrance of the newlyweds. Dinner is served.
Most weddings have a Grand March, where the wedding party
makes the Tunnel of Love for the bride and groom to go
through, then they all dance together and exchange partners
with each other, while everyone else videotapes and takes
pictures of all the couples.
More traditional Grand March
Start by lining up in the Tunnel of Love, first with the
wedding party, then adding as many other couples as can fit
in the hall. Start with the bride and groom standing right
by the DJ stand, then the wedding party, then everyone else,
as many as possible, everyone join in and help. Get everyone
involved, make the Tunnel extend all the way from the DJ
stand to the back end of the hall. Grandma, Grandpa, Aunts,
Uncles, Cousins, even your friends from Florida,
everyone is welcome and encouraged to help. The more people
the better.
Tunnel of Love? You know that one: it's where the people
stand facing each other, holding their hands up and toward
each other. When you line up you make a tunnel out of your
bodies and hands. Usually the bride and groom go through
this tunnel, and you capture them when they get to your
section, and get a kiss from the bride or groom. (not
everyone though just a few)
So, there's a Tunnel of Love extending all the way from
the DJ stand to the far end of the hall. The tunnel is made
of maybe a hundred or more couples, the wedding party first,
then the relatives, then the friends and everyone else, no
problem. Start the Grand March music.
The bride and groom start through the tunnel, getting
kisses left and right. Everyone else then follows them
through the tunnel, so that the tunnel actually goes through
itself.
When the bride and groom come out the far end at the back
of the hall, DJ motions the bride to the left, the groom to
the right, then the rest of the women to the left, and all
the men to the right. The single-sex lines circle around the
outside edge of the dance floor, circling back to the DJ
stand.
DJ runs back to the front by the bandstand to motion the
couples together, joining back up, and has them promenade
(slowly, if the Tunnel is still eating itself) back down the
floor, swaying to the Grand March music, which we have been
playing all along.
DJ runs back to the back of the hall, in front of the
line of couples. He splits the couples off, couple by
couple, to make two lines of couples circling back around
the outside of the floor, back to the front by the DJ stand
two by two.
Get it? First there were two lines of singles circling
the outside of the dance floor, now there's two lines of
couples circling back to the DJ.
About this time DJ's helper steps in and takes over the
back end of the dance floor, while DJ runs back to the front
end and stays there. That way he doesn't have to keep
running back and forth. When the two lines of couples come
back together by the DJ stand, DJ combines them together
into fours, and the groups of four promenade down the hall
from the DJ stand to the back. There they are split into two
new columns of fours, which circle in two lines again, but
lines of fours, left and right around the floor back around
to the DJ stand.
At the DJ stand they are combined into eights. DJ and
Friend are working the front and back of the hall. The
eights promenade to the back, swaying to the music. Some of
them are giggling, it sure looks like great fun.
Now, depending on how many people are there, DJ and
helper might send them to circle back around and make
sixteenths. But this time they don't. When the line of
eights reaches the back of the hall they are split back into
two lines of fours, sent left and right to circle back
around to the DJ stand. The fours reach the front, promenade
to the back, then are split into couples. The couples circle
left and right back to the DJ stand, then promenade to the
back of the hall, where they are split into two lines of
singles, to circle back around to the DJ stand.
When the lines of singles reach the DJ stand, DJ combines
them into one huge long line, a snake of people,
girl/boy/girl/boy/etc, with the bride in the front. DJ leads
the bride and the snake, like a giant bunny hop line, to the
back of the hall, then around the dance floor to the left,
as the snake circles around the outside of the dance floor
and gets itself sorted out.
Then DJ leads the bride as the snake spirals in toward
the center of the floor. When they reach the middle, DJ
turns the bride around and the snake snakes past itself
spiraling outward. The back part of it is still spiraling
inward as the front part is spiraling outward. They spiral
out, and circle the dance floor again to get straightened
out into a big circle.
Stop the music, everyone applaud. Stay in your spot in
the circle while the newlyweds have their first dance. If
you were waiting for the traditional Grand March, well,
there it is.